Sunday, November 23, 2014
We now have a dog who is 14 and today my husband and I had "the talk" about him. He has become increasingly incontinent, and it seems that not a day passes that we don't have something to clean up, either inconspcious little brown turds that have dropped out, or diarrhea, which smells so foul that he he won't go anywhere near it. We can count on moist pillows in his crate from his urine leaking in the night and have to be very careful to get him out of the house as quickly as possible in the mornings before he lets loose with a deluge of nasty smelling old male dog pee. We don't see this situation getting any better, only worse.
Like many things in life, it's complicated. He is not a dog we are overly fond of, tending towards obsessive/compulsive and bizarre behavior. For example, he once lifted his leg, took aim, and then urinated on my ankle. Think autistic. However, aside from the incontinence, he is doing pretty well. He has a good appetite and manages to charge the fence in the back yard to bark at passing cars, people, and especially, other dogs. He sleeps a lot, but seems generally happy to be on the planet. I'm afraid that if we do put him down for our convenience, we will be filled with guilt, but at the same time, both of us are tired of living with an animal that we don't really like that has turned our home into a toilet. So, to keep that guilt at bay, we recently purchased three packages of doggie diapers....
Friday, November 7, 2014
Around the time of the transplant, he opened up a gallery in Albuquerque with another artist, Kim Arthun. Both felt the constrictions of normal gallery relationships and wanted to take more control for their own work. They also wanted to provide a "sane" venue for local artists, and that's what they did, providing Albuquerque with one it's best venues for seeing art that mattered. * In that extra 15 years he grew his son, maintained a loving relationship with his wife, did his art, hiked and camped and co-ran Gallery 208. Then, his kidney gave out, and once again he had to wait for another transplant. This kidney only lasted about three years, and finally, as Kim said at his service, he "tapped out" last week.
The service was held at a large church, and filled to capacity with all the people in Albuquerque who had been touched by Russell. Kim read his eulogy, and it was truly beautiful. He gave us a picture of Russell's life that was complete, but more importantly, he gave us the sense of how much their friendship mattered, and how much these two men loved each other. When my husband and I left the service, we each felt envious for what Russell and Kim had shared.
Sunday, October 26, 2014
In working this way I have to let go of most control, and I also have to accept that much of the success of this process is being in the right place at the right time. From having painted for over forty years, it's extremely difficult to paint without knowing what the paint will do. I know washes a little, but haven't worked with them much, since I've always liked to go back into the paint and work it until it becomes what I want. With washes, once you put the paint down, you have to leave it alone because the more you mess with it, the less chance you have of it working it's magic--and it's this magic and trusting in the universe that seem to be what I'm looking for.
Saturday, October 11, 2014
However, now, with the painting sold, what I saw was a complicated, triangulated relationship between the dog, the angel, and the bearded figure. Both the dog and the man are constructed from photographs of the Reverend Dennis, an African American folk artist/minister from Mississippi, in his late 80's when I met and photographed him. His world was a tangled overlay of religion, militarism, and paranoia(his antiquated hearing aid probably didn't help matters much). * The angel's body is made up of tumbleweeds and wire, as are her wings, and while she is looking benevolently at the bearded man, it's not completely clear what the dog is up to. His tail is up, and he is alert, not sure if he's barking a warning to the angel, or if he's ready to take a chunk out of the man. The man looks concerned, but not alarmed, and we are left not quite knowing what is about to unfold.
Tuesday, September 30, 2014
http://www.andersonranch.org/ had to be found or given to me. The second day of the workshop, one of my students, Trace Nichols, showed up with a plastic bag with something inside. On her run that morning she had found a small brown snake, dead, by the side of the road. As the days went by, I had 4 stripped pine cones(squirrels getting ready for winter) which resembled paws of some strange beast, two dead flies, about 15 tiny sea shells, some smashed pine cones(from being driven over), a stack of lovely Japanese printmaking paper (tear offs), beautifully stained tissue with which a student had blotted her paintings, old, yellowed, dictionary pages, a DASS transfer of leaves, and numerous copies of images printed and then discarded. And these were just a few of the things I collected or that were given to me by my students as the workshop went on. My last gift was laying on my work table, beautifully wrapped and tied in leaves. Trace had, once again, on her morning run, found a dead animal, this time a squirrel, and knowing that she wasn't going to come back that way, had wrapped it in leaves and tied them with stems so that she could carry it comfortably on her (long) run home. I opened the beautiful present, simultaneously gasped and jumped a several feet backwards, then thanked her profusely for the lovely present.
Sunday, September 14, 2014
The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.”
― Albert Einstein
“Stop thinking, and end your problems.”
― Lao Tzu
“ In thinking, keep to the simple.”
― Lao Tzu
I have a hard time with thinking, or rather, perhaps better said, thinking has not always been my friend. My thoughts shape me: they can create much anxiety and loneliness, and I don't understand why. The thoughts swirl and repeat, swirl and repeat, especially at 4:00 am in the morning, when whatever thoughts I have seem always to go to dark places. When I teach, I tell my students to let their brains go outside for a smoke while they stay inside to work. I see my students convincing themselves that they can't paint, or can't collage, or don't understand color, then, when given a little push, and their hands are allowed to take over and their thinking discouraged, they are able to do all those things, and much more, beautifully with complex creativity and, often, with profound meaning.
Sunday, August 31, 2014
Of the three Big Heads that I did this past year, "Big Head(Worrying)" is my favorite. It's the one that I most identify with. The colored dots of perspiration dripping from the head's face and forehead, the background, made of columnar paper; straight, rigid, meant for keeping careful track of numbers and accounts. The eyes and ears are tiny, fever dream features, and the mouth is from a photo of a young friend who has a congenital disorder that is causing him to lose his teeth. It's a large head, with big worries, not just about numbers, but about the environment, children, the on-going war in the middle east, aging, bad backs, the tea party, mothers with dementia, GMOS. I could go on and on, but it's probably better if you just add your own worries so that you can relate to "Big Head(Worrying)" as I do. It's good to be able to share.